July 16, 2020
It is not unusual for human beings to be a little narcissistic and is a developmental stage that every teenager and young adult passes through. However, what if that narcissism continues into adult life? What problems do narcissists cause for themselves and their children?
This article will examine what narcissism is, some of the warning signs that you may be an adult victim of a narcissist, and much more.
What is a Narcissist?
The term “narcissist” describes people, reportedly more men than women, who have inflated senses of self-importance. Other symptoms include an excessive need for admiration, an inability to handle criticism, and a blatant disregard for the feelings of others. They are also lacking empathy toward others and will not take the blame for their own actions.
Narcissists are found everywhere; however, they tend to gravitate toward jobs that put them in positions of power.
There are some warning signs that a person in your life is a narcissist.
- A narcissist has blurred boundaries and will ignore yours. They may invade your privacy and steal or “borrow” your belongings without your permission.
- Narcissists will not acknowledge, nor will they honor any boundaries you set.
- They believe they always know what is best.
- You are the one doing all the giving and they the taking.
- Narcissists make you uneasy in their presence, causing you to walk on eggshells around them for fear of their next attack.
- You feel a great relief when the narcissist is not present.
- Narcissists will manipulate you and use any flaws or vulnerabilities against you.
- In the presence of a narcissist, one may feel unlovable, take all the blame for the behavior of the narcissist, and feel inadequate.
Narcissists often treat all the people in their lives, including their children, as though they can do whatever they want with their lives.
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