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To change attitudes, don't argue —— agree, extremely

What if the best way to change minds isn't to tell people why they're wrong, but to tell them why they're right? Scientists tried this recently and discovered that agreeing with people can be a surprisingly powerful way to shake up strongly held beliefs.

Researchers found that showing people extreme versions of ideas that confirmed - not contradicted - their opinions on a deeply divisive issue actually caused them to reconsider their stance and become more receptive to other points of view. The scientists attribute this to the fact that the new information caused people to see their views as irrational or absurd, according to a study published this week in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

"We truly believe that in most intractable conflicts, the real problems are not the real issues," said Eran Halperin, a psychologist at the Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya in Israel and an author of the study. In reality, he said, both sides know what needs to be done; however, there are many "psychological barriers that prevent societies from identifying opportunities for peace."

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Abstract in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences: Paradoxical thinking as a new avenue of intervention to promote peace

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I've been trying to figure this out, too, Tina. I think the key is in the videos they put together. Maybe the child adversity approach would be spanking....A parent wants their child to behave and thinks that spanking is they way to go. So, agreeing, is saying yes, you'd like a child who behaves. And then the video would show spanking taken to the extreme of beating? (In animation, of course!!). Is that the approach? Would that work? A friend more or less did that once after she overheard the owner of a Christian bookstore, a man, talk with a customer about spanking, and how the belt was the best way to get their kids to pay attention and behave. After the customer left, she told the owner that she couldn't help but overhear, and she had one question: Did he think that Jesus would hit a child with a belt? The bookstore owner burst into tears!

I like this article but cannot see how I could put it "Yes, I agree. We should continue to ignore childhood adversity so that children and families will be healthier and happier."  Hum... I would have to do a lot of thinking to figure out how to use this approach so it would be effective and I wouldn't be considered sarcastic.....Does anybody have any ideas??? I would like to hear them.... I would use any approach I could make work....

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