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"Stories of Complicated Grief: A Critical Anthology"

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25 October 2013: I had the pleasure of taking part in this very special project on complicated grief, titled Stories of Complicated Grief: A Critical Anthology, edited by Eric Miller, PhD. It will soon be released by NASW Press, and if you order a copy now, you will receive a discount off the list price.

The book's dedicated website gives this description of the project:

Death. Sadness. Depression. Heartache. Pain.

These are words commonly used to describe the range of emotions that individuals experience when dealing with the loss of a loved one, a chronic illness, or an unwanted life-changing event.

Grief is often a difficult issue for people to deal with, and there is no right or wrong way to grieve, but there are healthy ways to cope with loss. Stories of Complicated Grief: A Critical Anthology is authored by social work and other human service scholars who have personally experienced complicated, protracted, or otherwise difficult grief and who write openly about their experiences but also place their stories in a larger academic context. This is the sense in which the book constitutes a "critical anthology" and fills a void in the academic, clinical, and general literature.

The authors in this volume discuss how their experiences of loss and grief, though harrowing, ultimately allowed them degrees of personal growth and betterment—with particular emphasis on the importance of giving voice to one's experience in writing. Powerful and moving as the stories are in their own right, they are notable in that they all highlight academic issues regarding the nature of loss and grief, shedding light on what it means to experience complicated grief while weaving in related topics such as cultural differences, stigma, shame, losses, and traumas other than death.

These accounts provide both clinical and practical insights on the nature of complicated grief for practitioners, researchers, and laypeople, making Stories of Complicated Grief an invaluable, unprecedented resource for clinicians, academics, and anyone grappling with the effects of complicated grief in their own life.

On the website you can also find a list of contents (my contribution is Chapter 3), the book's preface, and information about the editor, Eric Miller, PhD. This book is truly a unique contribution to the literature on complicated grief.

© 2013 Laura K Kerr, PhD. All rights reserved. 

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Thanks so much for sharing, Brenda. The chapter I wrote addresses a similar issue - the unresolved feelings that arise at times of death when there has been a history of adverse childhood experiences. Unfortunately, as you point out, a funeral can be fraught with great pain due to unresolved trauma. And I agree - sadly, this is not unusual. Hopefully, with more awareness of the relatively common occurrence of ACES, their long-term impact, and a language with which to talk about trauma, we can start having more conversations that lead to transformation rather than silencing.

Very interesting topic that caught my attention immediately (because of what I experienced at the time of my mother's death).  I think, in certain dysfunctional families, the death of a family member can be fraught with other more tragic (if there is anything more tragic than the death of a loved one) revelations that are usually kept within the family & cause friction, deterioration of relationships, misunderstanding or lack of empathy for other's own personal reactions to revelations, etc.  In other words, a funeral is a VERY painful place to be dealing with family trauma that has never been dealt with prior to that family death.  I wish someone would study cases such as mine (which I now know are not at all uncommon) to provide help, and support those of us who experience devastation at the time of a family death.  Just my two cents!

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