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Rethinking Foster Parent Recruitment & Retention [ChronicleOfSocialChange.org]

 

How well I still remember one of the anthems of my generation: “For the times they are a changin’.” And how applicable these words continue to be, especially in our world of Child, Youth and Family Services.

It seems that the past decade and a half has been a blur of major public policy and service delivery paradigm shifts, and these are changes for the better.

One of the most profound changes can be summed up in these words: Foster Care as we have known it for decades is on its way out.

With the advent of California’s “Continuum of [Foster] Care Reform” (CCR) and the plethora of child welfare services reform initiatives at the federal level, the times really are changing. It is time for our industry to snap out of its “Boo-hoo, what are they doing to us now?!” mindset and embrace change, proactively moving forward to make it successful.

This monumental change is exemplified in the role of the “foster family,” soon to be aptly re-branded in California as a “resource family.” The practice of a foster child going into a foster home or group home and basically remaining in the “foster care system” until they age out is ending. Group home placement or “congregate care,” as some refer to it, is rapidly being dismantled and reconstructed to provide only short-term treatment services.

 

[For more of this story, written by Jim Roberts, go to https://chronicleofsocialchang...ment-retention/10215]

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I really liked this article and put it on my Facebook page. Foster Care needs major reforms and help for care-givers and case workers to understand the special needs and the extreme difficulties these kids can present --- their behavior when viewed through a trauma informed lens makes sense… It just won't to those who haven't had the experience of deep soul trauma during development…..

 

  • Don't touch me --- I have a problem with touch it makes my skin crawl and my brain crazy and I feel like I want to scream and jump out of my skin, don't touch me
  • Don't expect that you can love me and I will automatically be okay with that (I don't know love, I don't know you and your attempts are intrusive and threatening to me)
  • I will challenge you when I start to feel like I may be able to attach to, want to love you (the fear that you will abandon me is so threatening to me, I must challenge you --- will you leave me? My emotions are so confused. I need to be attached but the pain from  abandonment is so great it may kill me. I love you/I hate you). 
  • I may tell you I hate you --- I hate me (I have internalized a world where I am nothing and responsible for everything).
  • And on and on --- the themes are similar but with modifications for everyone. 

Having foster kids is tough.  They present special problems from deep hurt and for those who have not experienced those kinds of wounds --- these kids will be very enigmatic...

 

They can be healed though…. They deserve love --- on their terms as their systems come to a place where they can let love in…. 

 

We also need to fund sufficiently --- the education that is needed to understand how these deeply traumatized kids think and feel. I see their behaviors as making complete sense… 

 

I behaved in ways that were puzzling to others… they weren't to me…….

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