I have discovered an amazingly simple and effective method for recovering from trauma, one particularly beneficial to parents who want to avoid passing on their trauma patterns to their children during the early childhood development years. I call it The Method, and I would like to offer any member of this community a complimentary introduction to it over the phone. Nearly all of the trauma recovery coaching I do is over the phone.
My work usually focuses on helping individuals get out, avoid and recover from abusive relationships. In our coaching sessions I help clients return to inner peace, re-regulate, and develop a trusting, even joyful relationship with reality. They also learn to set boundaries, and leave and recover from an abusive relationship.
Whether one is dealing with an abusive mate, family member or employer, if you are experiencing abuse in a relationship it is because of what YOU are doing. This does not mean that your actions warrant abuse, but rather that you are making unconscious choices that lead you into and keep you in that abuse.
The challenge of setting boundaries, leaving and recovering from an abusive relationship is perhaps the most underrated challenge there is. Nothing may be more difficult. It may be more difficult than kicking the most addictive drug. It is as difficult as avoiding what you feel absolutely attracted to.
The roots of the abusive relationship cycle that plagues so many people go back to childhood, when the young child did not have the tools to cope with the sense of utter alienation and psychological solitary confinement. As difficult as it is to recover from this, and as painful as the process is, IT CAN BE DONE. The process I use is called The Method.
The Method helped me recover from a devastatingly abusive relationship breakup that nearly proved deadly. It helped me discover the ability to easily set appropriate boundaries and stick to them, to have the courage and self-confidence to leave an abusive relationship, even though it meant having to face life alone and without the support of the abuser’s resources. It helped me recover from the devastating traumatic shock and loss of power that occurs in an abusive relationship. Through it I emerged with healthy love for myself, feeling calm and happy, and fully whole and empowered.
Again, I offer anyone and everyone in this community a free phone introduction to this process, in the hopes that it will help you and become one of the tools you use to help others. See www.exitabuse.com.
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