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Defining Resilience: Nature or Nurture? [thriveglobal.com]

 

By Ben Saravia, Thrive Global, August 5, 2019

We all know them, and history is littered with them. People, be they friends, family or colleagues, who seem so able to rise above whatever life may throw at them. Not only do they seem to take adversity in their stride, but when they are set back, they have an ability to quickly ‘bounce back’ – and may even grow from the event. Perhaps they are just lucky? Or is it a skill? How come they seem so resilient?

The American Psychological Association defines resilience as “the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or even significant sources of threat.”

There are large amounts of empirical evidence that shows that a person with a relative who suffers from depression is almost five times as likely to develop depression themselves. But the basis for this is unclear. It could be heredity and/or due to environmental factors. It is possible, for example, that children (who model behavior) are more likely to be depressed in adulthood if they have seen a depressed parent for example, or lived in the same conditions that caused the onset of the depression. Correlation is not causation. 

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Inspiring article. Thank you Rafael Maravilla for posting. I think we would be served by understanding the location of acquired/learned trauma and adverse experiences. For me that would be in our autonomic and automatic subconscious memory that is used for movement talking walking sitting and eating. So is mostly subconscious.  Now it is known what was done to us, we then do to ourselves. We are imprinted in our autonomic and automatic memory that controls our motor skills and habits.  To change these patterns of acting and feeling we must involve our body kinetic memory while going about changing our mind and reactions. What was done to us that we internalize and make a habit and world view is only one behavior of many. So it is important to offer our subconscious autonomic and automatic system alternatives and options.  A state and a feeling or a world view is a polarity and every polarity has it's opposite poll.  So anxiety is a poll. Feeling guilt is a poll and the other is no guilt. And on it goes for all our feeling views and the resulting behaviors and patterns.  The issue with resilience is the lack of finding the opposite poll to give you an option or choice of how to feel or move or view the world. This is a big deal as depression and fear or anger seem written in stone. " This is just the way I am" = very low resilience. 

This is one solution I call polarity flip flops and is to be done while you move. The hard part of this process is training your mind to find polarities. This seems odd as almost everything has its opposite poll.  But the result is in your automatic autonomic mind and memory you will have created the skill of finding and feeling the opposite in everything and every feeling. Your body learns not to be stuck, thus you have choices and resilience. 

https://youtu.be/ISsZTs2HdVA 

 

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