Elaine:
All attachment related emphasis is super helpful. All adoptive parents get home study requirements and basics info. So there is no stigma. It is often led or co-led by adoptive parents so there is no us and them vibes but a sense of sharing instead. Many with ACEs, like me - opt for adoption to avoid triggers and complications of birth, breastfeeding, medication issues, etc. Etc. Though we may not say so at first. We end up learning more about healing via understanding attachment than in most trauma treatment. I wish for a similar system for bio and birth and all parents. Plus, adoptive parents do not carry same shame or judgement that birth families often experience because trauma often, though not always, occurs pre placement. However, more resources are needed for grief, loss and race issues for families who adopt. Glad to see this topic explored. Cissy