Well, I have started commenting this in public now, on an attempt to popularize it a bit - I don't know if people will listen but I can't just walk away from this stuff without leaving something out there.
I used to suffer greatly - I returned to 22 month mark (birth of sibling) but I had lots of other early + cumulative trauma, too. As in hot mess - all of which is gone now. I see it now and what has been seen cannot be unseen. https://youtu.be/bJcKU7oEv8o