I once saw a book with the title "What's Right With You?" I increasingly include this with individuals and groups - in addition to "What Happened?" It speaks to resiliency, strengths and what can be built on. It is an attention getting question because our culture focuses on the perceived gap between where we think we are and where we think we want to be. In my own healing and as I witness and support the healing process of others it seems that often what we "think" bears little resemblance to the amazing reality of who we are and how we can evolve, In adding "What's Right With You?" to the other questions, we may be more apt to identify a key: our bliss (real bliss rather than spaced out dissociated pleasure) which is there for us to follow as an impeccable guide for our well being (per Joseph Campbell, "Follow your bliss").
Thank you for opening this conversation!