Hello Susan,
I am very intrigued by this topic and I thank you for your question. I am working with a hospice care team here in my local community to explore how they can use ACEs information to inform their services. If you are interested, please send me a private message and I can connect you with them.
I hope others have more to add to this discussion. If you haven't seen her work, I would highly recommend that you check out Pauline Boss. She is brilliant. Here is a link to some of her Ted Talks and I have attached one of her articles about Ambiguous Loss.
Cheers,
Kody