maybe talk to each other? one of the most important things that I learned from the old time doctors we had in the past who actually cared about their pediatric patients was that Parents who care about their kids is the most important asset we have and that it is always important to listen to parents. I see way too many parents now who care deeply about their kids being demonized and even called terrorists by government (which is totally not appropriate). kids need parents who care about them. we would all be doing a lot better if we had more parents who care about their kids. the biggest problem in our society is the destruction of the family and of good, healthy parenting.
I hope you find the resources you are looking for.