I'd want the doctor to be receptive and listen, not argue with me about it. I'd want him/her to ask clarifying questions about it and use active listening.
If I told my doctor, I'd want him to...
1) Validate.
2) Normalize ACEs.
3) Remind me that ACEs are not a death sentence, there is hope.
4) Build capacity in protective factors and evidence-based practices I can implement in my life to heal.
5) Follow up at next appointment.