Connie and Julie,
I contacted Faith by email but she doesn't deal with adults except as parents. Just for luck I dialed Mary's number, and not only did she answer but she was extremely generous with her time (she must have given me at least a quarter hour) and answered every last question I had. I just have to post about it here because Mary's help went well beyond what I was expecting and I am extremely grateful because she answered many questions I was unable to resolve anywhere else and is extremely knowledgeable as well. I want to thank everyone who helped me get my questions answered, great work everyone!
Jeff