Hi Jeff - Sorry the list of attachment specialists in Orange County I sent you a few months ago didn't work for you. Did you try all the links on my "Find an Attachment Therapist" page in Ventura and LA Counties? http://attachmentdisorderheali...herapists-directory/
Especially with alexythemia (can't feel feelings), I had that, it's typical of infant trauma, I healed it with Somatic Experiencing. These two somatic links are on my find a therapist page above, surely one of them has a practitioner in Ventura County: –Somatic Experiencing, Dr. Peter Levine (enter zip) : http://sepractitioner.membergrove.com/index.php
–Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute, Dr. Pat Ogden
Find a sensorimotor therapist: read the intro first:
https://www.sensorimotorpsycho...py.org/referral.html
https://www.sensorimotorpsycho...ferral/prUSA_CA.html
I have names for four attachment specialists in LA, likely LA is better for you than Orange County: http://attachmentdisorderheali...rectory/#comment-726