Shelley, Please watch the following so you'll know there's a movement working on prevention.
The Raising of America - Are We Crazy About Our Kids? (32 min)
http://acesconnection.com/profiles/blogs/the-raising-of-america-are-we-crazy-about-our-kids-32-min
It's SO good. It's part 1 of a series. See the source website http://www.raisingofamerica.org/crazy-about-our-kids for more information.