Thank you Stephanie,
Your first link doesn't seem to work ?
The closest example that I can share is page 5 in Dr Anda's presentation here:
https://multco.us/file/37959/download
It is simple #s, but doesn't have the female/male split.
I am also looking for the even simpler one which shows percentages female/male/total using ACE SCORES from 0 to 4+