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To Help Kids Thrive, Coach Their Parents (nytimes.com)

 

In 1986, in a few of the poorest neighborhoods in Kingston, Jamaica, a team of researchers from the University of the West Indies embarked on an experiment that has done a great deal, over time, to change our thinking about how to help children succeed, especially those living in poverty. Its message: Help children by supporting and coaching their parents.

The Jamaica experiment helps make the case that if we want to improve children’s opportunities for success, one of the most powerful potential levers for change is not the children themselves, but rather the attitudes, beliefs and behaviors of the adults who surround them.

More recent research has helped to uncover exactly how that change can take place. Psychologists including Mary Dozier at the University of Delaware and Philip Fisher at the University of Oregon have studied home-visiting interventions in which parents of infants and young children are provided with supportive, personalized coaching that identifies and reinforces the small moments — such as the face-to-face exchanges sometimes called “serve and return” interactions — that encourage attachment, warmth and trust between parent and child.

These positive influences in children’s early lives can have a profound effect on the development of what are sometimes called noncognitive skills. In our current education debates, these skills are often talked about in morally freighted terms: as expressions of deep-rooted character, of grit and fortitude. But in practice, noncognitive capacities are simply a set of emotional and psychological habits and mind-sets that enable children to negotiate life effectively inside and outside of school: the ability to understand and follow directions; to focus on a single activity for an extended period; to interact calmly with other students; to cope with disappointment and persevere through frustration.

Nurturing the healthy development of infants and children, whether in the home or in the classroom, is hard and often stressful work. What we now understand is that the stress that parents and teachers feel can in turn elevate the stress levels of the children in their care, in ways that can undermine the children’s mental health and intellectual development. The good news is that the process can be reversed, often with relatively simple and low-cost interventions. To help children living in poverty succeed, our best strategy may be to first help the adults in their lives.

To read author Paul Tough's entire article, please click here

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Hi Cissy,
Please know I haven't yet had the opportunity of reading Paul Tough's new book. He has a poignant clip when you click on his entire article in the blog. Taking one to his website, the 2.09 minute clip next to his new book reflects Paul's thoughts how we're going about educating our children and youth wrong with respect to their non-cognitive skills (e.g. curiosity, optimism, grit) when research suggests those skills are the product of their environment. We need to change the environment where children live, learn, and play. Our national trauma informed - resilience building movement is tremendously hopeful and inspiring.

Dana:
Thank you so much for posting this. I saw it the other day and was going to do the same. I want to read the book by Paul Tough as well. Have you?
Cissy

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