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Hey Community! We just observed International Women's Day (#IWD2021) yesterday and we hope the ladies in our community had a terrific day. Against the backdrop of all the intimate partner violence and family-related abuse being perpetrated in the region, here is a question many are asking - " What leads to a (big, hard-back) man assaulting a woman or a child? " There is a recent thread on Aces Connection where a man in Canada posed the question. The responses are interesting. Before you head...

Yes, this phrasing, versions of which are used in Jamaica too, assumes/suggests that the woman is always 'the victim’. And when we speak of GBV here, in the region, we rarely talk about emotional/verbal abuse. Put that into the equation and we’ll have a much clearer picture of the scale of women’s violence against men and boys in the Caribbean. In many ways, emotional verbal/abuse is just as egregious and harmful as physical abuse by men. In some cases, it is worse. I had a conversation...

Excellent points made by all parties in that discussion, Juleus! Our societies are largely unaware of the harm caused because we are underplaying the value of regional research into the issues. Even then, the issue is hard to raise and engage in dispassionately due to the high emotions involved and the strong value placed on our matriarchs. Here in Trinidad and Tobago, reports from children's advocates revealed that abuse is perpetrated by female caregivers (largely physical and verbal) and...

Juleus, feel free to post about this in the community. The discussion is invaluable. I believe the blog category on Caribbean Data would be ideal, especially if you can also link to articles from the region such as that from which you quoted.

Thank you for your comment, Juleus. I assure you there is no intent to direct the conversation in any particular direction. The phrase is a colloquialism commonly used here in Trinidad and Tobago whenever the issue of SGBV is being discussed. I have heard it used by both men and women, especially recently amidst the anger at the murders of two women in our nation. I do agree that the issue is extremely complex. We in the region have to address it with open minds, including having those...

I find your framing of the question a bit off-putting. Why does the man need to be “big, hard-back”? It’s as though you are trying to direct the responders into a particularly one-sided, anti-masculinist way of thinking/responding. I’m pro-feminist, but I understand that we need to have serious conversations in the Caribbean about the circularity of violence and how all of us are in some way culpable. Men, yes. What we don’t say enough about is boys' experiences of violence at the hands of...

Hi everyone and Happy International Men's Day (IMD) to all the men and boys of the Caribbean. Yes, November 19 is observed as a day to celebrate men and boys, and highlight issues and challenges faced by them. Unlike most dates observed globally, IMD is inextricably linked to the Caribbean in that it's main proponent since 1999 has been a university lecturer at the University of the West Indies, St. Augustine campus. Trinidadian Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh has been advocating for the cause of...