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They Break, You Know

 

It was something about the phrasing that got to me. Something about the cadence of his words, the staccato of his speech.

 

“Nobody loves me. Not even my mother who gave birth to me.”

 

It is an odd turn of phrase, isn’t it?

 

Not even my mother who gave birth to me.

 

He was buckled into the backseat of my Toyota, still too little to sit up front. At seven he had already moved more times than the total number of years he had been on the earth. And this time, like the times before it, he moved with his belongings in a trash bag. A suitcase, at least, would have added a small degree of dignity to the whole affair – to being “placed” in another and another and yet another foster home before reaching the 3rd grade. Trash bags break, you know. Trash bags can’t possibly support the contents of any life, and certainly not a life as fragile as this.

 

They break from the strain, eventually.

 

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Yes we are when we cannot see the innocence of children and that Jesus loves the children.... I am not a religious person (I am spiritual) but I love Jesus...

 

Jesus loves the little children.. All the children of the world.... Red and Yellow.... Black and White... they're all precious in his sight, Jesus loves the little children of the world!!!!!!

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I hesitated to "like" such a tragic story.....but this is exactly the sort of story that needs to be kept at the forefront of our minds. Tragic. It reminded me of a quote that I use to start an online course I developed on Creating Compassionate Schools. "The heart knows today what the head knows tomorrow."

 

Conversely, if the heart knows ache, loss, and/or abandonment today  - it experiences things that do impact the mind's ability to function in the future. To modify the quote, "The mind's aches today stem from the heart's aches of yesterday." Mental health hangs in the balance.

 

I know it's simplistic - but unresolved relational trauma and neglect are the "tap root" of poor mental health. Our "systems" are failing children, not the other way around. We are all implicated to varying degrees. 

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