Suicide myths: Learning the truths

This is the third article in this series on suicide in children. The first asked the question, “Do elementary age children seriously think about committing suicide?” The second was, “A call for help”.

In this article we separate the truths from the myths of suicide. It is important to truly understand all aspects of suicide in children so we can help them have a better life.

• A person who talks about suicide won’t actually follow through and do it
  Truth: Most people who attempt or succeed have talked about it

• A person is threatening just to get attention
  Truth: The person may need attention, you must act! Their need for attention may be desperate enough to proceed with plans for suicide.

• Kids don’t commit suicide
  Truth: Even children as young as 5 or 6 have killed themselves

• Teens are most likely to commit suicide
  Truth: The elderly are the most likely– however, children and teen suicide rates are rising

• A person on antidepressants is more likely to commit suicide
  Truth: Depression left untreated remains the highest risk. The impact of antidepressants on suicide rates is controversial and competent. Professionals should always be involved in decisions on whether to use medication.

• A suicidal person always gives clues if others are just paying attention
  Truth: Not everybody broadcasts intent or shows signs

• A promise to keep a note or letter unopened and unread should always be kept
  Truth: This is a HIGH indicator for suicidal intent. Don’t make such a promise and probe why the person is making this request.

• A promise to keep suicidal intent secret should be kept
  Truth: This is one promise that should NEVER be kept

• If I tell, the person will be mad at me
  Truth: The person is often grateful later

• A person who survives a previous attempt is not likely to re-attempt
  Truth: A previous attempt is an indicator of future attempts

• There is no way to stop a person intent on suicide
  Truth: There are many things than can be done to stop a person, but all suicides cannot be prevented

• The only effective help is from a professional
  Truth: Friends, relatives, teachers, ministers, neighbors, and co-workers can all be helpful

• More suicides occur during the winter...................

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